I've just read through your whole backstory, mainly because mine is identical in most areas and finding that yours is helping me find some direction. One thing that stood out for me was
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We are all influenced by who we hang with. Before my wife met these women, things were going well. I will admit that things weren't perfect, but I do believe that if she were to be hanging with a group of women who were happily married, the chances of our marriage surviving this mess would be much greater.
My W tends to be in touch with friends that have been through this and make the grass look greener, and also a friend that she knew from childhood who she connected with again just before W claims feelings for me started changing.
Keep up the good work, I'll keep reading!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
