The dual front approach is something that I have thought about in the past but I have trouble doing it. I tried to rub her shoulder in bed the other night and she said "I'm ok", meaning to stop. So now I am wondering how long I wait until I try it again or do I ever try it again?

The upside (if there is one) is that previously that probably would have gotten to me. But that night it really didnt bother me. I guess in the back of my mind I kind of expected it.

M 37 W 36
T22
M14
D8
D4
8/2012 distanced
BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.)
W move out date: June 8th.