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Would you ask your neighbor why they didn't take a call? No. It's none of your business anymore. It's pursuing. Stop asking personal questions and don't claim it's a business question.

You can do this.


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S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
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Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
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12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing

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yep...mybad! I just don't like the mystery. Today it bothered me...but, lately I have not been asking.


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Originally Posted By: waitingformagic
no excuses... I know, but the main reason I do so, is to find out if its a client.


I'm not buying that. I think we know the main reason you do it, and it has GOT to stop!!! It's PRESSURE!! Stop the pressure!


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57
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Sorry, I find that hard to believe.


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Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
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believe it... I've been like that for years... He is faithful.

Just rec'd a random text from h: "new big bang and two and 1/2 tonight... I laughed"

how do i reply to that?


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H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
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I think just a normal response. If you saw it then something like "yeh I thought it was funny too". If you didn't, how about "missed it tonight. Hopefully I can catch the rerun".


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TX Grizzz... I didnt want to come across as too excited for this random NON WORK related message... so waited a half hour to say "missed them".... possibly coming across as mysterious as to why i didnt watch them. He immediately replied with "should be on again next hour"... waited 3 mins and said "ok, thanks"... again not suggesting I was sitting here with nothing better to do.

My initial response would have been to say... aww, tell me about it.. (hoping to engage in convo)... came on here instead to ask advice... TX!!


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H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
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Sounds good. I have really cut back on my texting and I hate it. But I do think it is for the best. If they want to continue the texting conversation then they will.


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Which is it: you know he's "faithful" or, when he hides his phone and doesn't volunteer who is calling, you "felt my tummy turn. Didn't like how that made me feel. Ignored it"?

Does him not telling you about a call from a client do that to you or are you worried about another woman calling him?


M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing

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Well SS... honestly, he is "single" now.. and all of it WORRIES ME !! I know it can happen at ANY time !!


M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
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