Charting a New Course

[Grizz]

I was confused forever about the goodbye kiss. Initially after BD, W and I continued to kiss but it just seemed forced. I quit initiating probably a month ago and so did she. This seems to me like a step backward but most on here say to stop the kissing unless she initiates. So I stopped.

Planning the vacation seems like a positive step. We have been invited to go on vacation with friends two separate times and W says we can't make plans because she hopes to have a new job. Now that is a legitimate reason but I can't help but think that it is also a very convenient reason to not go on vacation with me. I know, mind reading.