. Because I solely concentrate on my S there is no doubt that's my switch is to become a better father and not to catch my wife back.
Good, keep focusing on S. He should be the most important person in your life, and you should be one of the most important persons in his, IF you are willing to step up. Let me tell you Bruce, although my father had visitation he was very uninvolved in my life. We now have a really good R and we can sit and just talk hours upon hours, but still, that father/son relationship is lost forever. Wether I understand his actions or not, won't change that.
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True, without knowing I was asking what else I could do in order to impress my wife but I understand now that I have to let this situation be still for the moment and let it sink on her for at least another month or 2 or more maybe?
Forget another month or two. It will take time, a lot of time. Avoid having expectations(month or 2), or it will just bring you down when they are not fullfilled. I just commented on my thread about how my X is still upset b/c she believes me being a better father is an act. I decided from day 1(BD) I would become a better father. Still, 6months+ later she still thinks it's an act.
If you know this change is real then give it time, it doesn't matter what she thinks right here and now. Keep it consistent.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
