Portia, On another subject, make sure that you and your family do not toss out things like furniture, papers, dishes, etc., until all of you have settled down. Sometimes when we do things like this immediately after a death in the family, we tend to toss out things that may be of value and don't realize it. The reason that I mention this is that when my grand parents passed out 18 hrs apart, the family went into the house and toss a lot of wonderful antique furniture away because at that time, no one wanted to be bothered with it or wanted to store it. I realize you have to do this task, but be careful as to what is tossed out. Okay?
Keep your focus on the task at hand...packing up a home.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
