I'm Baaaaaack . I did it! Went to work in the shop with h. Turned on the tunes & worked away. I was happy singing. H was having a difficult time with his tasks. NO TALKING. After a while, I guess he got tired and pointed out that we should wrap it up for the night. So, I took that as my cue, cleaned up and left with a passing "talk to ya later" type comment.
I really hope I don't start to take on the look as "cleaning lady", being "worky" is just not the same as him seeing me on a Saturday night.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
I'm Baaaaaack . I did it! Went to work in the shop with h. Turned on the tunes & worked away. I was happy singing. H was having a difficult time with his tasks. NO TALKING. After a while, I guess he got tired and pointed out that we should wrap it up for the night. So, I took that as my cue, cleaned up and left with a passing "talk to ya later" type comment.
I really hope I don't start to take on the look as "cleaning lady", being "worky" is just not the same as him seeing me on a Saturday night.
Cool! You DID it!
That's exactly how you need to be. So e days will be easier than others. Some days will be very tough to stay the course. No matter what you encounter, think of all of us here watching to see if we need to give you a hug and a high five or the 2x4!
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
OK.. another day done, nothing really to report with h today. A few client appoinments with him involved. His cell phone rang & he tilted the phone away from me (because of sun? or didn't want me to see), he didn't answer. I asked why he didn't take the call, said he was busy and could call them later. I felt my tummy turn. Didn't like how that made me feel. Ignored it. Saying good-byes are getting easier, at least I don't cry after them anymore. Still sux tho.
H says we may need to do that hour+ drive again tomorrow to pick up more inventory, like we did last week (country drive, not quick hwy). If we do, neighbourly in the car... NO R CONVO's!
Putting my heart & my thoughts into God's hands... he can decide my future. Trying to see this through.
Looking forward to Friday nite...Kitchen party with the neighbours.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
No questions like that!!! I know it's hard, but no reason to ask who was calling
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
no excuses... I know, but the main reason I do so, is to find out if its a client. Its a start of a 180 for me. I normally ALWAYS ask who it is,. He hates it.
I do feel I have reason to trust. Its just that we are now "outside" of a rel'p and has the right to do/speak to whomever he wants... and I HATE THAT! (cbt...that was for you)
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
. I did it! Went to work in the shop with h. Turned on the tunes & worked away. I was happy singing. H was having a difficult time with his tasks. NO TALKING. After a while, I guess he got tired and pointed out that we should wrap it up for the night. So, I took that as my cue, cleaned up and left with a passing "talk to ya later" type comment.
