Going forward. What do you think you can do for yourself to step past this road block that you have for yourself?
There is nothing wrong at all with not wanting to sweep your thoughts and feelings under the rug because they do not play into the cheating spouses concept of reality.
Since this is an issue for you that needs to be addressed. Continue to address it but make sure you have expectations , choices , actions and consequences.
This is something you need to work through as individuals and as a couple.
If she does not take your thoughts and feelings with the 100% respect and work that is required then you have even more answers on the level of a wife you have and you need to decide if its worth it to continue on. You worked hard. I can see your frustration on figuring out that it may have been a stacked game the whole time. You work hard you improve and get nothing in return except a wife who has zero regrets, zero remorse and zero respect. Hopefully it is not that way. But it may be. That is for you to decide.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
