I 100% believe that if things don't work out between us, it is his loss. Not that I won't be sad - but could I find someone who isn't a selfish, self-centered, cheating, spend your families $ on your ho bag liar? I think it wouldn't be hard to trade up in that scenario!
i agree- it's sad that they're such nice guys turned into the biggest dopes in the universe. you made me laugh tho- i particularly like the "ho bag".
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Our spouses once thought we were good enough to spend the rest of their lives with, so our new found place of being chopped liver kinda svck
true again- i really hate that the most. feeling like a pos instead of "special". yeah- it's cheesy to say out loud - but true. he used to say - " well, you picked me" - it was true - it would always make me squawk becasue whatever it was - it wan't something i "signed on for". allllllll the things that pop out after a gazillion years.
oh well- this guy did pick me- yours picked you- if they're unhappy now-
i wonder honestly if it's as simple as they cannot accept that true love doesn't always mean it's fun or exciting or firework sex? just can't accept that life can still be very good with someone BECAUSE of the longevity and sameness and sane-ness and familiarity - in stead of "inspite of" it? it's my current working theory-
can they move past it or outgrow it before they chase us away- don't know-
oh well - just me - waitin for whatever is next ... good luck and hope your day is great. you're very entertaining btw - maybe your h just doesn't want to lose track of you or control
i always wondered why men want to "collect" women- even women they think they don't want- they don't want anyone else to have them either-
