lol...too trusting, you paint a great picture of me without even knowing me or the destruction she did to our family with her actions - "going balistic"...sorry, but hate to tell you i am the quiet voice when i tried to ask questions, she was the one who went "balistic" when she yelled at me for her A, "i just want to forget about it"....so does your C also tell you in order to move forward from the A there needs to be a rebuilding of trust? mending the hole the fallen tree left in your home? if the branch is removed cant fix the roof until the supporting structure is sound right?
as for your question, there is a huge difference about making a poor decsion and accidently knocking over a vase and making a poor decision to let another man put his penis inside you, while married to another. These are both poor decsions yes, but one has an "accidental" result (might knock vase ove and might not)and the other is a "direct" result of a choice...there is no other result possible (unless you don't get caught).
and as for the kids, i do everything with them...it is the way i GAL during he BS and she resents that they always want me to do things with them and not her....i know i am no saint, nor do i claim to have been. If she wanted to pack he bags and leave, she has had more than enough chances.
gman
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
