Bug - I am amazed at your strength and clarity of thought. You are dealing with such difficult issues head on, calmly and with the desire to find what is best without panicking. I just sense a calmness right while you stand in the eye of a storm.

I am not suggesting that this is not hard for you - I can only imagine how hard this must be, but your approach is so positive and productive. You confront the problem, look for solutions and if they don't work, you look for more.

As always, you are truly an inspiration. Your actions are teaching me you can have a positive and calm approach even when things seem at their worst.
Thank you!


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D