It seems the timing of this is of utmost importance if you want to save the marriage though. You know, like not until they've had their chance to figure out on their own the grass isn’t so green on the other side afterall.
This agrees with what H has said. I asked him yesterday was there a specific OW as to why he moved out. He looked shocked...like the "of course not!" look... After some discussion he said that he really wanted to know and experience life on "the other side" and he decided all he ever wanted was at home anyway (can't help going back to the Oz theme).
But going through it is sure rough!!!
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
