He has a long way to go, the question is do I try to walk with him? Do I be his casual friend? Can I be his friend knowing that he is pursuing someone else?
A question I ask myself all the time, and for me, we have children together, so I really can't make that decision lightly. I will say for me, my feelings and actions recently to this is I cannot. And I will not, knowing that there is even a chance he is pursuing someone else. I have no evidence that he is not w/OW. I refuse to be a friend, because, honestly, to me friends are a dime a dozen, and a best friend should be someone you have a relationship with. So, if he doesn't have that with OW, than maybe he is barking up the wrong tree with that one.
But this is just how I feel and what I am doing, and honestly I struggled with that for a while, actually tried being friends for about 5-6 weeks (read my threads through February/beginning of March) and it just got to be too much for me that I had to go dim again So, I recommend doing whats best for Portia.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
