Recently Separated and Need Help

[woundedfool]

Everyone around me seems to want me to just write him off and move on with my life.

Re-Read DR page 23!!!! They are well meaning because they don't want to see you in pain. But they are only getting 1/2 the story.

I want him home. (obviously, or I wouldn't be here)

It has been mentioned before, but remove your expectations. Accept you have no control over what he does.

I've started working out with a coworker over our lunch break. Not only does it seem to help with my anxiety, it also is really helping me keep off the weight I've lost. 15 pounds in 2 weeks!

Excellent GAL! Keep them up! But be careful, 15lbs in 2 weeks is not really healthy, try to work on patience and slow steady weight loss.

I have DR, but do you feel that DB would be better suited to helping me work through my issues with my H's PA?

I don't know, I read both... DR spoke to me far more then DB. Give it a shot, at worst you are out $15.00