I’m so glad to hear she is slowly coming around, you have really earned this T.

Originally Posted By: TSquared2
She let on before how it made her feel to look at her empty inbox, so I email her something every morning...tame, safe, supportive (I wish I could be more "fun", replace the OMs that way, but not yet) and then let her drive any further communication.


Wise and experienced MLC board members may chastise me for this, but I’d be testing the waters here if I were in your place, T. She needs someone to fill this sexual absence in her life… who better than the one who loves her most? I wouldn’t be waiting around for OM to do it, (again) that’s for sure. What did you do the first time she fell for you? Do it again. Maybe she is secretly wishing you would.

I wish my wife was in the place yours is, so I could try out my own (supposedly risky) advice. At least in our case, I highly doubt it would scare her away. (which I know is the common fear) Only you can decide what is best for you guys.

As always, best wishes to you T, keep doing what is working.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl