Jim, I think you handled it just fine. I think a lot of us get worried in these sitches that there is a RIGHT way and we need to know what it is because we're afraid we're doing the WRONG thing. But honestly, when it comes to a WAS what may seem right today will seem wrong tomorrow and vice versa. For example, she might say today that she wants to meet, but then tomorrow you try to make arrangements to meet and she makes it sound like she NEVER said that and may even sound miffed at the suggestion. That kind of stuff is par for the course with a WAS because of the storm raging inside them. That's why we're always saying "detach", because it's the only way to sanity. We step off the roller coaster to save ourselves from throwing up, LOL!
