When I want to talk to H about our R, I write him a letter. Then of course I never send it. But at least I've expressed myself. (And you know, even if I did send it the MLC wouldn't comprehend it.)
Just a thought.
Sending you good vibrations ~
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.