I have been offered a place in a "managing anger" course which i think i could get a lot out. Unfortunately it overlaps with my night of looking after the boys. I have asked W if she would be willing to swap her wednesday night with the boys with Tuesday which might work better as S5 has soccer training wendedays which i plan to take him to. I have not told her what the course but will tell her if she asks. I dont want to lie. I did say that if she did not feel comfortable with the idea, then I would be happy to leave it for another time or would be willing to listen any concerns she may have. This in itself is a 180 for me as previously i would have just booked the course and assumed she would work around it as I would have thought that it was a good thing for me therefore a good thing for everyone.
The dilema is that I this is something that i would like to do , a positive change 180 for me but it will impact on my W and the boys a little. Is this a selfish request? It only goes for 8 weeks and although it is about making changes in ME but it might works against me in a way.
I have not heard back from her yet. Will wait and see
Me - 37 W - 37 M -5 T - 15
S=5 S=3
Seperated - 12/12 BD - 20/03/13 Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.
