NLW - Let me clarify - I am nowhere near where you think you are. Because I have been having such a hard time finding the strength to forgive OW and have not gotten there is why I talked to my priest. I just want to know what it will take so I can get there. I know you struggle with this as well, I just hope we can get there soon - for our own benefit. Thanks for stopping by and supporting me - I know you also have your plate full.

Bug - I know what you mean and yes, I don't want to cause waves, but I will definitely keep myself as distanced and as dark from them as possible until I can heal. Even after all this time, it all still feels very raw and right now all I want is to heal and stop hurting. I know the formula - time, detachment and patience... Thanks for your support - your words always help me center a bit.

Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D