Advice

[LBH_LC]

Yes, Jim, that's what my W said too. First we were going to meet at the house, then we were going to meet somewhere else. I was agreeable to whatever she presented. Then things kept getting postponed and rescheduled. Then I figured out she really didn't want to meet at all.

I would say be agreeable to what she wants, but don't seem to eager to meet or even get rid of the stuff.

[Jeack]

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[Jeack]

I was thinking of just asking if she wanted to meet up after work tomorrow and she wanted to grab something to eat or just make it a drop and run? Bad idea good idea?

[Mach1]

I was thinking of just asking if she wanted to meet up after work tomorrow and she wanted to grab something to eat or just make it a drop and run? Bad idea good idea?

What contact can YOU deal with ???

[Jeack]

I was thinking of just asking if she wanted to meet up after work tomorrow and she wanted to grab something to eat or just make it a drop and run? Bad idea good idea?

What contact can YOU deal with ???

I mean I will be OK either way. I'm just trying to decide the best dbing method. I mean she's filed and I only have so much time to try to get her to change her mind. But then last time I filed and we reconcile

[Mach1]

I get that....

Just have a plan before you go in...

New clothes, new smell, etc....

Walk in and give yourself a certain amount of time to conduct your business.

Know what you want to say..

And if you start feeling like you are trying out for the lead role in The Notebook...

Have an exit plan....

Know HOW to get out before you do something you don't want to do...

KWIM ???


So go, and focus on what is positive in your life now , relax, and enjoy...

[Jeack]

This was my text to her

Hey why don't we just meet up after your done work tomorrow. I know you've been working ot so just text me when your done. I've been craving some fajitas from on the border so if you want to meet there. You can do a drop and run with your stuff or join me for some grub. Up to you.

[Jeack]

Her reply
My brothers coming home tomorrow and were doing dinner with mom. I won't be able to.

Me
Okay that's fine. You want me to drop it at your work. Give it to mike or shoot for next week? And tell your brother I said hi when u see him. (Brother drives cross country)

Her
Just give it to mike I guess. Or can you drop it off today

Me
I'll give it to mike and then you can hook up with him. I won't be done in Springfield until prob 830 or so.

Her loss not mine.

[Jeack]

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[Jeack]

Well mutual friend has her stuff. i'm going dark like a sharpie. thanks for ever ones support.