Wow, Tally,

YOu are in a strong frame of mind!

I think establishing these boundaries will be good FOR YOU. You are right--you need to take care of you and your children, unborn child included.

Your H is waaaaaaaaaaay too dependent on you despite he has these OW in the wings.

Your words are what I want to say, but don't have the strength yet. And, my H hasn't been playing the kind of games yours has (he has maintained his steady progress of detaching from me and moving ever so slowly toward his destination (OW)).

(((((((((((HUGS to YOU!!))))))))))))))

Let us know response to your boundaries!


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.