Originally Posted By: wishing, hoping
At least your H is willing to let you drive his vehicle.
Ahem...well... he IS in another country atm...lol. But if I don't drive his truck I can't work. So really no choice.
Originally Posted By: Snodderly
You should be able to find a nice car this time of year at a reasonable price.
I think I'm going to wait for now. H agreed (in theory) to him using his bike and me his car (if and when he ever returns home). If my job goes full time, if H gets back to work, there'll be more $. No sense, imho, of rushing to buy a car/go into debt. That's what we decided today - tomorrow could be a whole new story lol.
Originally Posted By: Portia
Your H is a twit.
This did make me laugh! grin

H texted me today


"You must really like your job."

Out of the blue - hadn't been discussing it at all. So I asked him why he said that. He responded.

"Awful cheery lately. Its a good thing."

Given his current sitch I didn't feel it right to cue him in on it being more than just the job, that its because I am actually exercising my inalienable right to pursue happiness. My happiness, not his. What's that song? "But it's all right now, I learned my lesson well See you can't please everyone so you got to please yourself." smile

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Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.