Recently Separated and Need Help

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Tonight my H joined us at a local restaurant for dinner. I ended up paying the whole bill, and I probably shouldn't have. But it was nice to sit down to a meal and it was the 4 of us again. I was thinking that maybe we could try 'dating' once a week. Or do you think it's too soon?

Everyone around me seems to want me to just write him off and move on with my life. I just can't imagine allowing 16 years to just walk away. I want him home. (obviously, or I wouldn't be here)

I've started working out with a coworker over our lunch break. Not only does it seem to help with my anxiety, it also is really helping me keep off the weight I've lost. 15 pounds in 2 weeks!

I have DR, but do you feel that DB would be better suited to helping me work through my issues with my H's PA?

I appreciate everyone's help and insight. It's so nice to know that there are people out there that understand and are so supporting.