My WAW - coming to terms with it all!

[25yearsmlc]

I have been thinking about where my wife is currently on a mental and emotional level and taking in her actions and gestures of the last few weeks. (refusing help from me, taking her ring off, being independant etc)

focus on the only person here working on the marriage...the person you want to work on and change, which is NOT HER but you. Back to you.,..


I really believe she is on a journey to discover her own self and inner strength again and I dont see this as a bad thing. Unfortunately the difficulties in our M and my over-reaction and threat of divorce was the catalyst for her to question what she wants in life. I dont blame her. She doesnt want a shitty marriage and tension at home.
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I hope she can find that amazing, strong and independant woman again, the one i fell in love with and inspired me, gave me strength and brought so much optimism and love to my life and those around[/s] her. I think somewhere in the last few years that woman dissapeared behind motherhood, careers, moving homes and a husband who didnt speak her love languages or pay her enough respect. Understanding this helps make this whole sitch somehow make sense and easier to deal with.

okay then...so, back to YOU. What's new? How are your GAL going?

What are your 180s? Be specific please...