Thanks Papa4Life. I think that's what I'm going to do. You bring up a great point about him testing me. In the past this wouldn't be his style, but who knows now?
I definitely don't want him thinking I'm snooping. I know I should've walked away when I heard him leaving the message last night, but just couldn't bring myself to do it. If this ever happens again I will not listen. All it's done is make me think about everything all day long. I feel very unproductive.
M 34 H 35 D 7 D 6 M 10 T 14 Pregnant w/ boy/girl twins-due 12/2013 BD 12/15/12