PS: it's different when you come on here and say...I interacted with H and it was all biz... then, I went for a run, coffee, read DB. THAN: H said this, and then we started talking about R. Or H did this...do you think he meant XYZ.
Deep breath. You CAN do this. Each time you do, it builds until you instinctively act differently. I kind of look at it like this, if it feels uncomfortable, it 's probably right. Also, if I feel LIKE I MUST DO SOMETHING!!!! It's emotion. Slow down. I don't have to do anything immediate unless someone is on fire. That's something I should take action on.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
