Not confused...trying to move forward...

[BRNR]

Thanks Papa, I need all the prayers, luck, support, etc, that I can get.

I believe the nature of the conversation he wants to have is to reduce the amount of financial support he is providing to me, because, guess what...he is struggling!!! (Why he didn't think about this before).

So I am prepared to listen and validate, but know if he decides to get ridiculous, then I will have to go to the courts and obtain support orders.

But you know what, it actually does give me a little relief in some way, knowing that I won't have to "depend" on him as much, as right now he sees that he is doing me a favor. (Really? Your kids, house, and debts too.) And, the pressure won't come from me, rather the courts, who will deduct the money right out of his pay...