H needs to see me as an independent person (attractive). How can I do that while living at mom's place ($$ tied up in inventory)? How can I do that while we are business partners?

I heard him say yesterday that he doesn't want to be responsible for everything that is on his plate (maint. on house (yard/pool/garden), huge inventory, investment property, business, multi storage locations for inventory), money, daughter, me, pets, etc...geez.... he is very overwhelmed.


M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)