"I am concerned tho that this will be a way to have time spent "working" more & not "couple time"... does that make sense? I fear our rel'p will turn to work only, and his loniness will be satisfied on the clock! He won't want to hang out on a Friday night, etc...."
god you just don't get it do you? Keep pressuring him and see where it gets you.
Go over there tonight and do your business and leave. No hugs, no R talk, no nothing. act as if it were the CEO of another company and you want to get your work done quickly and effectively so you can go out and enjoy life..
"He won't want to hang out on a Friday night, etc...."
this is some real bad anxiety. Is this letting go ^^ Honestly ask yourself that. Is this letting go of your H?
Also GAL isn't just about downing a bottle of wine with neighbors. Go meet new people and start new hobbies so you don't obsess about your H
If you don't listen to us I can assume you don't listen to him and that is annoying
