I know you probably didn't mean it this way, or maybe you do, but quit pissing on everyone else's parade. You added no encouragement to Chachi, all you did was express YOUR puzzlement, yet again, over how someone else could possibly do something YOU can't fathom. Could you get the he!! over it already and just accept it?
You continually turn other people's threads and what THEY are working on into discussions about YOURSELF. Start your own thread a b!tch there, would you? It isn't always about YOU.