Quote: She said that she has really made a conscious effort in the last month or two to gear herself up for sex earlier in the day by allowing herself to think "dirty" thoughts or by reading erotica
This is a typical LD woman thing, To "Allow" herself to think dirty thoughts. I truly don't understand this way of thinking. I know it happens a lot, but to think that people DON't think about sexual things is mind boggling. Sex is ALWAYS present in my mind, it's like the DEFAULT image in my head. Now if I think of other things, the image of sex is temporarily suppressed, but if my mind begins to wander, then thoughts of sex AUTOMATICALLY return. I know, it's the testosterone causing this, but to actually have to "ALLOW" yourself to think about sex to me is very bizarre. My wife is even worse then this. I don't think that my wife really EVER thinks about sex. She is thinking of all the mundane things going on, which really seems BORING to me. I guess I still have a long way to go to truly understand the LD mind.
