Wife said she was done!

[Maritimer]

I've just noticed our details are very similar. Both 36, W both 31, S 3 and 1. Married nearly 5 years.

Because it's going well unless there is some sort of deadline approaching I would just keep up with what your doing if there is obvious improvements.

Something I have noticed in this mess is that it doesn't matter what is said, it matters what is actually happening. Getting her to agree to something so early on won't necessarily change the situation and could possibly undo the progress. The situation changing is what will get her to hopefully reevaluate and move forward.

Hey T1000, Our families are similar, thanks for dropping by!

I do feel there is a deadline due to the sale of the house. It is now spring and we are getting more viewings. My fear is if we are in separate dwelling that it would be hard for us to make it work again.

I am being the best person I can be and I hope she would have reconsidered to try again by now. She is a quite person so I felt like i need to speak to her to get a reading on how she feels.