Yes, give him a chance to change his behavior. That's what boundaries are about, protecting you while giving the other person a choice.
But the first time he sneaks in one of his cute little sexual innuendos, shut him down. He's probably never had anyone show him that much love before.
I composed my email, it was firm. Just kids, finances, and house. I was very specific. That I can no longer discuss our feelings, hopes, sadness. We can discuss the kids feelings and that I will call/text him during the week if I think the kids need extra dad time. No sexual advances, I'm beautifuls, or I love you's. And that I will do the same. I said that today, we can't be friends for my and that of our unborn child's, health.
I plan to send it right after work, to give him the evening to process. Doing this crap at work is not cool.
We shall see. It's in his court. I know that without a doubt, I certainly haven't shown him this much love before. Heck, from the texts I saw, he has 2 other woman taking care of him. Not just sexually, they both were worried about his infection that he had to get meds for. Let them apease and stroke his ego. Good lord! Whenever I feel wobbly, all I have to do is take a gander at those texts.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
