I love your optimism and I hope that you are right but I have been lied to on so many occasions and have my defences right up. (She often says that she'll be back soon and then procedes to spend the whole night out -presumably with the OM)
I've read about your sitch and only wish I could offer you advice which would be worthy. I can only hope that your sitch gets better sooner rather than later.
Me: 42 W: 40 M: 18 T: 20 D13 D10 S7 BD: 8/2012 Still living together