Originally Posted By: labug
Block him.


You are right. I plan to talk or send the email tonight, and if he continues to text me anything other than kid/finance/house related things, I will block him.

I haven't set the boundary yet. I've allowed myself to be an emotional crutch to him still. That's on me. But once I state these boundaries, I will stick to them with those types consequences. I just believe that right now, since I have allowed this behavior and responded to it, blocking him would seem out of the blue and cause even more drama.

Does that seem correct?


M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D