You are right. I plan to talk or send the email tonight, and if he continues to text me anything other than kid/finance/house related things, I will block him.
I haven't set the boundary yet. I've allowed myself to be an emotional crutch to him still. That's on me. But once I state these boundaries, I will stick to them with those types consequences. I just believe that right now, since I have allowed this behavior and responded to it, blocking him would seem out of the blue and cause even more drama.
Does that seem correct?
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D