your H needs to check into a sexual addiction program.
For real. I had a long talk about telling him I know about both OW with my bestie. She said to go dark first, then when he sees that I'm serious, and deals with the fallout from that, I can figure out if I feel like doing that. I've still allowed myself to be there for him emotionally, and I can't do it anymore. I am not going to allow myself to meet his emotional needs any longer. YOU are doing this to YOURSELF and taking me along for the ride...and you want ME to make it all better. Um, why the heck am I doing this to myself?!
Because, I Tallula, am a co-dependant. Blarg
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
