Help! H came over after secretely meeting with my dad and has talked to a lawyer! He said 10 years of this and he is done, please help!!!

Me 29
H 28
M 9
T 11
No kids
2 dogs
H moved in with parents 3/21/13
H wants a D 4/2/13
D Filed 4/5/13
Served 4/17/13