My thoughts? Just because he said it's about finances, doesn't make it so. And you should always put your children first - but no sense in thinking about telling him. I would think it is assumed, no?
Question - why does your H think you no longer love him? Or at least, why is he telling the kids that? Have you asked him that question before? I apologize if you have covered that before, but I don't think you covered it in those words before.
Glad the health issues are working themselves out. Wish it was faster to healthiness, but glad it's moving in that direction. Also glad to hear the kids are opening up to you about all of it. That's a good thing. Really good although I realize it's not easy.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."