Wise Db'ers give me a better response...H will ask something about the kids, what I would like to say is... well, you know H if you were here you would already know the answer
Lots and lots of bitterness and anger in your posts. All your posts are H-focused. As long as you keep your eyes on H, you will be bitter and angry. Paradoxically as long as you are bitter and angry, H is going to want to stay as far from you as possible. Your only chance at getting H to return is to change yourself. Detach from him. Get out. Get a life without H. Become a happy, content, satisfied, confident, attractive you. A you that will be fine with or without him. A you whose happiness and purpose comes from within, not from H. Your H might be attracted back to THAT you, but even if he isn't you will be better prepared for life without him. So read DR and start working on yourself. You haven't even taken the first steps yet.
