Some very good 'words on paper' here from Corri and honeypot. I'm going to snip these and present them to my W as they say much of what i feel and see happening in my M but I have been unable to get across.
As you said above, it is very hard to get out the feelings of hurt without just coming across as angry...maybe your words can speak for me. Keep the good stuff coming, we're all reading along and it certainly helps..thanks

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