This may be difficult to think about, I know it would for me but you want someone who is going to be in the lives of your children to be loving towards them. A civil, respectful R, for lack of a better word, with you can only enhance that.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss