How to make it work again?

[scaredsilly]

Hello, Grace! I'm doing very well. H and I are traveling together and enjoying our lives and our marriage.

I think getting his adult daughter out of our home and our marriage has done wonders. We are almost back to the way we were before that all happened.

My focus has changed from H and his kids and family to me, my relationship with H, and my relationships with my son and his family.

What I've learned from all this, primarily, is that I'm entitled to have a happy life, just as others are, and that I'm responsible for making my needs known in a nonthreatening way. Otherwise, resentments build and that leads to bad behavior (at least for me) and isolation.

Thank you for stopping by. I can see on your thread that you're making progress in your life and finding more enlightenment and happiness each day. I know you'll be happy, too!