Wise Db'ers give me a better response...H will ask something about the kids, what I would like to say is... well, you know H if you were here you would already know the answer, but I don't( well I did say this one time) usually I just fill him in. How to get rid of this feeling to be snarky back to him? wish there were some trick. My problem is being a smart alec..I know, I know, OW is not making snide remarks to him...
what is wrong with our society? why is it that one spouse can cause so much pain and just walk away so easily? What are we as a society teaching our children about integrity and honesty? Part of the problem as I see it too is no one wants to get involved. Not my business...Am I crazy to think when someone messes up they should hear from friends, families, coworkers that they are screwing up? I want that big letter "A"! Of course, no one wants to hear negative opinions or about what they are doing wrong. I have said to me boys 16 &19 that I don't like the situation that we have found ourselves in. That we need to continue to do our best and be positive. That their job is school and they are not to use this as an excuse for misbehavior. For me, day at a time.
M48, H50 M21, t26 S19(at college) S16,D15-cp like a 5yrold. PA confirmed 7/2012 H move out 11/2012
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
