Hey KG,
I'm here too!

I'm in awe of your attitude towards OW. I'm not ready to forgive her for the way she went about preying on my stbx.

It's too raw for me and she too concerned, now, to flaunt her new acquisition (my H) in my and everyone else's face.

I'm working on ignoring her, not so much of the forgiveness. She may be damaged, but she is also cruel.