Quote: Good suggestion, LDWife, but I'll probably finish reading it this weekend and then give it to her. I don't want to be pushy, but I have let her know that it describes the way I have been feeling to a T. Once she reads it, maybe she will be more open to talking about our relationship, figuring out what issues are keeping her desire down and making a plan together to try and make things better. Right now she feels like I'm pushing the issue too much, so I want to let her go at her pace.
Right now I'm on what I call "The Dark Side Of The Moon", as we went 3 days without sex, then her period came, so it will be at least another week before we ML. These 11-day sexless stints seem to have absolutely no effect on her- she's not more hungry for it after the long wait or anything. Me, I'm starving! Thanks for the reply, too, CeMar.
Chachi, you are not alone, however I WISH I had only gone 11 days without sex. Been before Thanksgiving for me.
I ordered a copy of TSSM yesterday. Can't wait to read it.
