I agree with Bug - although tbh - it REALLY bothers me what he said.
He knows you well and he knows what to say to make you 2nd guess yourself. This is something that you will need to recognize as you go forward in the D process.
If the kids' faces will light up seeing H.. do it for them
Do it for them... and no one else.
((( )))
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.