I do not know how to keep the happiness in my life, without being thankful about the fire of he!! I went through to get there.
But I do not know how to have tea with the woman who set the fire. I do not know how to communicate with the woman who is the catalyst for this all.
Perhaps being you and being open to the conversation would help, as you suggested? I'm all for that. In my experience, we have nothing without relationships. Good ones, bad ones, and ones that light a fire under us, even when we don't like it. But as a child of God, relationships are what we are and what we strive for. Regardless of the outcome of the conversation, you sound like you get it. Like you understand the bigger picture and that although you hurt, so does the other side of the relationship.
We're all just kids anyway, right? We all have emotions and we all don't always show them very gracefully. That's what reconciling ourselves to our brothers and sisters is all about in my humble opinion. Never the easy road, but always the right one
Good luck with the game face and hope to hear about the black eye. Sounds interesting...
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
