She is going to find out that just b/c she told OM no contact that isn't isn't that easy. If she doesn't know about the addiction, she'll cave, go, go back to contacting.....but the next time, they will be much more secretive to keep it hidden.
When is the boot camp?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
