Positivespin: I'm leaning maybe 51-49 towards a possible affair, but I don't know. If you would have asked me this time last year, I would have said "no way," but the last six months of our marriage were really rough because I was going through the roughest time of my life. And the last few days saw some odd behavior, but that might have just been her prepping for the BD.
I honestly don't know if it would be game over for me. Six months ago, I would have said yes. Hell, on BD it was "yes." Now? I don't know. I don't think it would. The thought of another man's hands on my wife makes me see red, but I think I could probably put it behind me.
I did not have a C at the time. I was on AD, but they were not working for me (in a myriad of ways if you catch my drift). My attitude was "yes, things are rough right now, but we can get through this." I didn't realize how depressed I really was. My W begged me to see a C, but we didn't have the money for it. We would have ended up deeper in debt.
Dad died a little before Thanksgiving. Once the funeral was over, I kept busy helping my mom out around her house, having her over for dinner and such, but then after a few weeks just vegged out in front of the xbox with the idea that I would let myself do this until 1/1, and then turn over a whole new leaf. Well, Jan 1 was an odd day, and the next morning was the BD.
