What is you gut telling you about a affair?

My wife changed overnight-new clothes, suddenly used cell phone, actually texted for the first time, started staying out late etc

At first my IC asked me about the possibility and I told her no way......maybe a ea. that's how much I trusted her

I don't want you sucker punched like I was- if you find out there is an affair is that "game over" for you?

One more thing-as a person who suffers from mental ilness and who has been stabil for over20 years. How did your IC not I'd your depression? Did you receive extra help during your issues with your father?


ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13